Charlie Chan

 In the social field, when dealing with Chinese people, Westerners often treat Chinese people as equal opponents. This is actually a mistake.  There are also Chinese people who are good at dealing with people, but on average, Chinese people are not good at socializing, compared with Westerners. Some of the Chinese people's actions against the West, especially the United States, are not out of active malice, but are often the result of a psychological barrier caused by the lack of understanding of the outside world and poor initiative of introverted individuals. Introverts often try to take the initiative based on fear and fear of being hurt by other powerful individuals.  Compared with Westerners, Chinese people are not good at talking, communicating, and making friends. Westerners like to have cocktail parties when they get together, while Chinese people have dinner parties. Why prepare so much food? Because there is nothing to say, and food is an excuse.  The gener...

At the end of the Chu-Han War, Xiang Yu and Liu Bang reached an agreement to divide the world along the Hangou Canal. Xiang Yu disbanded his allies and prepared to go home, but Liu Bang secretly mobilized troops, took the opportunity to attack and kill Xiang Yu, and eventually established the Han Dynasty. Most Chinese people admire people like Liu Bang, and contemptuously think that Xiang Yu is too soft-hearted.   If you put pressure on the ancient Chinese, hoping to force them to choose negotiation, you will not be able to achieve your goal. For the Chinese, negotiation is a feint, a delaying tactic before their own strength is gathered. The ancient Chinese also did not believe in contracts and often tore up contracts easily. They believed that the party who abides by the contract is only the weak one who has to do so. Does the fact that ancient Chinese people did not accept negotiation and contract mean that they lacked morality? In terms of private morality, they should not be b...